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Post by Stacie S on Aug 13, 2003 12:12:58 GMT -5
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Post by friend on Aug 17, 2003 12:10:36 GMT -5
(From "The Language of Letting Go" by Melody Beattie) Friends Don't overlook the value of friendshio. Don't neglect friends. Friends are a joy. Adult friendships can be a good place for us to learn to have fun and to appreciate how much fun we can have with a friend. Friends can be a comfort. Who knoews us better, or is more able to give us support, than a good friend? A friendship is a comfortable place to be ourselves. Often, our choice of friends will reflect the issues we're working on. Giving and receiving support will help both people grow. Some friendships wax and wane, going through cycles throughout the years. Some trail off when one person outgrows the other. Certianly, we will have trials and tests in friendships, and at times, be called on to practice our recovery behaviors. But some friendships will last a lifetime. There are special love relationships, and there are friendships. Sometimes, our friendships -- especially recovery friendships -- can be special love relationships too. JUST FOR TODAY: I will reach out to a friend. I will let myself enjoy the comfort, joys, and enduring quality of my friendships.
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Post by Stacie S on Aug 17, 2003 13:15:47 GMT -5
[glow=red,32,300]That is a great saying Life is too short to be fighting with each other. One day we are here the next we are not. I am always there for my new and old friends. It is sad for me because people say they are your friend then use ya or pertend they are going to help you then stab you in the back and all you were trying was help someone when they told there story to you. This world is dieing anger and fighting. Instead of lovely one other how hard is that. Remember live is to short.[/glow]
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